Singles are not unfinished business

April 7, 2009 · Posted in Being single 

I was on Twitter looking at what people were saying about “Singleness”.  Let me just say that I really don’t like the word: it reminds me too much of words like “illness” or “loneliness” – well it’s neither thank you very much.

In my twitter exploration I even saw someone say they saw a church sign which said “Marriage may be painful, but singleness is hell.” Which I think is an appalling and frankly unbiblical thing to say.

Thankfully I also came across Pastor Marvin Williams blog in which he writes very helpfully about this subject.  He says that singles are not unfinished business.  He says:

the church has inflicted much pain on singles by treating singleness as a disease for which the only cure is marriage.

He goes on to point out reasons why Christians may be single and to say that rather than being a curse, it’s an opportunity to be used by God in the church.

Well, rather than me repeat all that he said, go check his site for yourself.

Singles are not unfinished business pt 1
Singles are not unfinished business pt 2

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